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Why Choose Coaching?

 

It might seem strange that a submissive would want or even feel like he deserves or even has the right to be coached about his submissiveness.  After all you could say he/she is a sub and they are there to do as they are told.  If that's what people believe being sub is all about they have got the whole D/S thing wrong. 

 

My reasons for helping submissives via coaching rather than domination are because firstly there are many submissives who have issues about it and I have vast experience of dealing with subs.  Secondly, there are many submissives out there that are gullible targets for Mistresses that will exploit them both financially, emotionally and for all the wrong reasons. 

 

As a coach my job is to EMPOWER you.  If that means acceptance of your desires and needs and finding and understanding that can move your forwards in your life, rather than hinder you and cause you guilt and shame.  If that means I can move you in a positive direction whereby you are able to include you personal fetish or interest into your vanilla life without it becoming an obsession and make your current relationship more enjoyable.  If that means I can cure of you any unhealthy desires that could get you into a big heap of trouble then I am your woman.

 

I will guide you, listen to you, be sympathetic to you but I will also make you work really hard on yourself.  I will be “Metaphorically” kicking your arse and helping you with all the things that may have held you back in the past perhaps due to lack of self esteem, abuse, gender or just plain “don’t know what you want.”  Have a good look round my site and if you have any questions.  Feel free to email me.

 

 

 

Domination is a complex psychological process which ensnares both parties in bonds of complicity,  and especially our sexual relations.  If we are not able to express ourselves or understand then we cannot be whole.  Exploring our sexuality should be an open an honest extension of who we are.